First steps to being more attractive.

First, take into consideration what kind of social setting you will be in. If you’re going to a club, then you can go all out with outlandish clothing and accessories. However, if you’re going to the library, it would be more effective to carefully choose one single attention drawing accessory.

For clubs, keep in mind that you want to look different than everyone else. If everyone else is dressed up with expensive clothing, then wearing something cheap will work better. You’ll automatically be classified as the ‘guy who doesn’t care’, which can be very attractive.

If you’re at a place where people are dressed like bums, then feel free to dress up a little more and you’ll automatically be seen as ‘the only classy guy’ in the place.

Sometimes clothing itself can make a large enough difference, however accessories can further improve your magnetism throughout the day. Something unique that represents you is the ideal thing.

Let’s say you enjoy biking, then you could have a necklace with a bicycle on it for instance. Then, in a social situation, people will notice and comment on your accessories.

Hygiene and Appearance

Hygiene is very important to women.

Before going out, make sure your appearance is clean.

Brush and floss your teeth to prevent bad breath. The last thing you want is to frighten women away when you talk to them. Do not forget deodorant.

Women dislike bad body odor. Comb your hair, and use gel if it suits your style. Make sure you don't have stains on your shirt.

Your clothes will say a lot about you. Taking time to consider your outfit will go a long way for you in attracting girls. Choose an outfit that flatters your body.

For example, if you are short, do not wear baggy clothes that will make you appear shorter.

Instead, wear tailored shirts and pants.

Take your style into consideration when you choose an outfit.

Dressing to your style will make it easier to attract girls with the same taste.

If you've never thought about your style, wear clothes that are comfortable for you.

Don't dress according to trends if the clothes are unflattering.

Wearing an outfit you're uncomfortable in will make you less confident when you approach women.

Show Your Confidence

Confidence is attractive to women.

You should not, however, confuse confidence with arrogance; not only is arrogance harmful to a relationship,

but also it is also very unattractive to women. Conversely, though, shyness can also negatively impact your chances with a woman,

because she will find it awkward to carry on a conversation with you.

Instead, strike a healthy balance by showing that you are confident but not arrogant.

To do this, stand straight and develop a steady walk. Make sure your walk is not misconstrued as a cocky saunter.

When going up to a girl, smile and ask for her name in a direct yet polite way.

Talk about your interests, and only talk about your achievements if they fit naturally in the conversation.

Keep the conversation balanced by including her in the conversation.

Be a Good Listener

Communication is the key to a successful relationship.Not only that,

but a woman also appreciates when you listen to what she says because it shows that you are considerate.

Keep her words in mind,and let her know that you listened by incorporating what she said into future conversations.

Listening shows that you are not shallow, and are interested in a deeper relationship.

It also tells her that you will be there for her when she needs you.